
In this article:
- Choosing the right attorney
- Organize your paperwork
- Plan for your future
- Gather Support
- A consultation doesn't mean you have to get divorced
- Conclusion
Getting divorced is a lifechanging decision that comes with many complex considerations and emotions. It's natural to feel overwhelmed, or even uncertain, after an initial consultation. If you're between your divorce consultation and potential divorce proceedings, you may wonder what comes next.
We understand that nothing about this process is easy. However, your attorneys are here to guide you through every step of the process. If you have already consulted with a divorce attorney, here are some things you can expect to come next.
Choosing the right attorney
If you've met with multiple attorneys, the first step is to choose which one is the best fit for you and your circumstances. This can include comparing factors such as experience, affordability, and the level of comfort you feel with them. An attorney who is responsive to answering your questions about the consultation or retainer process is a good indicator of the support you'll receive throughout the process.
Organize your paperwork
Organizing your essential documents early in the process can make a significant difference in the efficiency of your divorce proceedings, therefore saving costs. We suggest gathering important documents like annual tax returns, pay stubs, banking statements, property titles, auto loans, mortgage, retirement and investments statements.
To help you identify what could be an important document to your divorce attorney, we've compiled a comprehensive list to help you get organized.
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Plan for your future
Once you've had a divorce consultation and you feel certain you would like to move forward, you will need to plan for your future. Some of the issues that may come up during the divorce are: Are you planning on staying in the same home as your spouse during the process? Do you or your spouse have someone they can stay with during the process? If you have children, have you and your spouse talked about where the children will primarily reside and what the parenting schedule will look like? Are you planning on finding employment or changing employment to meet the needs of your new household even with child support or maintenance?
These questions may seem overwhelming. It is important to do a bit of planning before starting a divorce. An experienced attorney can help you navigate these issues during a consultation and provide you with options or agencies that can assist during the divorce process.
Gather support
One of the most important things you'll need throughout divorce proceedings is a support network. Divorce can be a time of transition and grief. A strong support system can help you cope with these complex emotions. We encourage our clients to surround themselves with friends, family, and others who provide comfort and encouragement. Our law offices maintain a network of trusted, experienced mental health counselors that are available for clients who would like that extra support.
It's important to note that when a divorce is in process, automatic orders are put in place to prevent large financial changes. If you are unsure about an expense or financial decision, we recommend consulting with your attorney first.
A consultation doesn't mean you have to get divorced
Meeting with an attorney does not necessarily mean that you are committed to divorce — rather, it’s an opportunity to explore your options. We understand that getting divorced is a huge decision that deserves time for consideration and planning. Unless your safety is at risk, your attorney should support your decision-making process without pressure. When you feel ready to take further steps, your attorney will be there to guide you.
Conclusion
At Bousquet Holstein, we aim to provide compassionate, knowledgeable guidance to clients considering a divorce or separation.
We understand that divorce is a big, life-altering step and we want to be there to support you every step of the way. Whether you are scheduling your first consultation, ready to go through with divorce proceedings, or somewhere in between, our attorneys are here to help you make the best decision for yourself and your family.
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Rosemary Lepiane, Esq.
Rosemary Lepiane is a divorce and family law attorney at Bousquet Holstein PLLC. She represents clients in uncontested, litigated, collaborative, and mediated divorces. Rosemary's goal in every case is to provide her clients with a sense of closure and stability. Her advanced training in mediation and collaborative law allows her to provide her clients with a practical and realistic approach to matrimonial and family court matters.